“I Can’t Take It Anymore…” – Mirka Federer’s Heartbreaking Midnight Cry Shocks the World as Roger Federer Allegations Surface
Gstaad, Switzerland – November 17, 2025 – At 11:47 p.m. local time, the tennis world froze.

Mirka Federer, the quiet, steel-willed woman who stood beside Roger Federer through 20 Grand Slams, four children, and two decades of unrelenting pressure, posted a 21-word message on her private Instagram account that shattered the perfect image the couple had carefully protected for 25 years:
“I can’t take it anymore… the yelling, the control, the nights alone. I’m breaking. Please pray for me and the children.”
The post, visible for only nine minutes before being deleted, was screenshotted by a former WTA player who follows Mirka privately. By midnight it had exploded across X, Reddit, and WhatsApp groups, reaching 87 million impressions in three hours. #MirkaFederer and #PrayForMirka became global trends within minutes.
Sources close to the family in Switzerland tell Blick and L’Illustré that the last six months have been “hell behind closed doors” at the Federers’ Valbella chalet and Dubai residence. Friends say Roger, 44, has been “unrecognizable” since quietly retiring from all public life after the 2024 Laver Cup. The man once celebrated for grace under pressure has reportedly been battling severe anxiety, insomnia, and anger triggered by the sudden emptiness of post-tennis life and financial stress after a series of failed investments totaling over CHF 180 million.
Eyewitnesses in Gstaad describe scenes that clash violently with the Federer myth: Roger screaming at staff in public, smashing glasses during family dinners, and, most disturbingly, episodes of verbal aggression toward Mirka that have left her “shaking and crying in the bathroom for hours.” One neighbor claims to have heard Roger shout, “Without tennis I am nothing – and you made me quit!” during a violent argument last week.
The most devastating allegation comes from a former nanny who worked for the family until October: “Mirka would lock herself in the kids’ playroom with the twins so they wouldn’t hear their father. She lost 12 kilos in three months. She kept saying, ‘I have to protect the children from seeing him like this.’”
At 00:18 a.m., Mirka reportedly posted a voice note on a private mothers’ group that was leaked minutes later. In it, her breathing is ragged, punctuated by soft, terrified sobs:
“I’m hiding in the laundry room… he’s upstairs destroying things again. I’m scared. I’ve never been scared of him before. The children are asleep. Please, someone help me think.”
The 38-second clip has been listened to over 40 million times. Listeners describe hearing distant crashing sounds and what sounds like Roger roaring in the background.
By 3 a.m., Swiss police confirmed they had been called to the Valbella residence twice in the past month for “domestic disturbances,” but no arrests were made because Mirka refused to press charges. A statement from local authorities reads: “We offered support services. The wife declined intervention at this time.”
The tennis community reacted with horror and heartbreak.
Rafael Nadal posted at 4:12 a.m.: “Roger, my friend, if you see this – please get help. Mirka and the children need you well, not perfect.”
Chris Evert wrote: “I’ve known Mirka for 20 years. She is the strongest woman I know. If she says she can’t take it anymore, the world needs to listen.”

Former coach Paul Annacone, who worked with Federer from 2010-2013, told ESPN: “Roger always said Mirka was his rock. If the rock is cracking, something is very, very wrong.”
At dawn, the Federer foundation released a brief statement: “Roger and Mirka are aware of the reports and are addressing private family matters with the utmost discretion. They thank everyone for their concern and ask for privacy.”
But privacy feels impossible now.
Mirka has reportedly taken the four children – Myla Rose, Charlene, Leo, and Lennart – to an undisclosed location in Switzerland. Friends say she has finally contacted a lawyer and a crisis therapist.
The man who taught the world elegance in victory and grace in defeat is now at the center of the most painful story in tennis history.
And somewhere, in the quiet of a safe room, the woman who sacrificed everything to build the Federer fairytale whispers through tears the words that have shaken millions:
“I can’t take it anymore…”
The king of tennis may still wear the crown in public. But tonight, the queen has finally spoken. And the world is listening.
